
Parenting is difficult- maybe the hardest task any of us will ever engage in. No step-by-step manual. No diagrams. No warnings for upcoming challenges. No way to gauge our progress. No crystal ball to tell us the future. If you're like me then you are often far more aware of your failures as a parent than you are of any grace for parenting. Sometimes we are left wondering how God can work in our children's lives when our efforts seem so ineffective. Below is some rich encouragement from the book "Give Them Grace" (Fitzpatrick & Thompson) that reminds us God is not limited even by our errors in parenting:
The disciples couldn't hinder the children from coming to him even though they tried.
When God calls our children to come to him, even if we haven't gotten it all right, even if we've trained little Pharisees or have a house full of prodigals, nothing is impossible for him. He can break through all our flawed methods and redeem all our frail errors.
The world tells us that their success depends upon our success. The world knows nothing of God's ability to use our failures as means to bless. "What is impossible with men is possible with God" (Luke 18:27).
So, even though we desire to be the ones who place our children in the lap of God's mercy and even though we stumble so badly trying to do so, Jesus is strong enough to pick each of us up and carry us all the way.
Parents, too, are weak but Jesus is strong. No one, not even you, can thwart his purpose to bless those who are his (Eph. 1:11).
Also, I'd like to take time to invite all Grace Bible Church parents, no matter the age of your children, to circle Sunday, May 6 on your calendar. That morning we will be specifically focusing on parenting children of all ages. After we hear from our our guest speaker, Matt Maka, that morning, we will have a working lunch Q & A so we can get some practical help for our parenting. Check out the information on this special Sunday by visiting, www.gracebiblelorton.com/givethemgrace.